Well it works for me…
I’m going through one of those phases where all your best laid plans end up going to the wall.
Most days I start off with a fairly good idea of what I need/want to do, (I can be thoroughly well organised if I choose to be), but lately, I’ve come up against a whole series of largely unconnected obstacles and irritants, the sum effect of which is to throw me off plan practically every day.
It’s almost at that stage where you ask yourself – is it me?
But of course it’s just the way life is from time to time and I know the best thing for me is to go back to basics as much as I can, and remember to breathe slowly, to consciously relax and to roll with the flow.
I’ve read a lot about mindfulness, and it’s at times like these that you realise that if you’ve tried to make mindfulness a habit, when you really need to be calm, you are able to access something steadying.
I’m a huge believer in mindfulness and slow relaxed breathing – I’m experiencing some big improvements in my health since I’ve actually started doing, instead of just reading about it. But I’d say I was very much a beginner.
It doesn’t matter – I feel the benefits, and it really isn’t a competitive activity.
Some days, (like today), I make a more conscious effort to centre myself – and my quickest fix for doing this? Is simple – I light a nag champa incense stick and let the fragrance calm my mind as I put my focus back on the breath.
I’m not sure that it matters which fragrance you use – nag champa happens to be the one used at my yoga class, so I subconsciously associate the scent with relaxation – but anything that has a similar calming effect will do.
I do wonder sometimes if the residual smell makes people who visit here think we’re a bunch of ageing hippies – but most people say our house has a welcoming atmosphere , so I’m not particularly bothered (and I probably am an ageing hippy at heart).
So if your day is taking its toll on you, might I suggest a few minutes relaxed breathing with the aid of your incense of choice.
4 thoughts on “Calming Quick Fix…”
Could it be that you are planning for what you think you ‘should’ be doing, or for the benefit of other people rather than yourself and your subconscious is trying trickery to get you back on your own path?
Interesting idea which set me thinking. I suspect that the honest answer, is that often, I make plans for what I want to do, but pretty well always put the needs of the rest of the family first if they crop up in conflict with my planned schedule. And thereby hangs the familiar tale of the mother trying to combine pursuing her own interests with looking after her family with as much commitment as her mother did for her – I know it’s a no-win situation and most of the time I can cope with it, but sometimes it gets to me. I guess the subconscious is where I try to see the bigger picture.
I use this incense as a brain cleaner to get myself to start writing at the beginning of the day. It reminds me of the head space that I need to find.
So true, it’s a great way to help clear your mind.